Is dating a married man bad

28-Aug-2019 09:48

Perhaps the best advice you can give someone about having a relationship with a married man is telling her not to even start. As my friend Jenna* told me, "You can't help who you fall in love with.The love of your life just might be a married man." Being part of any couple can be challenging and unpredictable, as we all know. In fact you may be just the latest in a long line of ego boosts that he obviously needs. If you are (un)lucky enough to have him eventually leave his wife you would always wonder… Whatever the reason it’s unlikely that there will be a happy ever after as you’ll never ever be able to trust him.

(c) Mark Goulston Blog Author, you take an almost too extreme stand against affairs. If you have eyes for a married guy, you’re probably sitting here looking for every excuse under the sun to rationalize what you’re thinking of doing.Even if a cheater does leave his wife for his side chick, do you think that means he’s changed? Unfortunately, men often cheat because they have an opportunity to.I have a very good reason for dating a married man...we're in love. That the wife has not to face questions of her neighbors? In many ways they can seem more mature, attractive and have their lives more together than their shambolic single counterparts. Too many nights of looking stunning in your new outfit only to be admired by the cat as you’re let down yet again. In the unlikely event of being seen out anywhere by anyone he knows, you will be introduced as his niece/ cousin/ babysitter. If he has kids it’s highly unlikely he wants more, even though your imagination is working overtime dreaming of your own little family together. You can never just phone him when you’re having a bad day.

(c) Mark Goulston Blog Author, you take an almost too extreme stand against affairs.

If you have eyes for a married guy, you’re probably sitting here looking for every excuse under the sun to rationalize what you’re thinking of doing.

Even if a cheater does leave his wife for his side chick, do you think that means he’s changed? Unfortunately, men often cheat because they have an opportunity to.

I have a very good reason for dating a married man...we're in love. That the wife has not to face questions of her neighbors?

In many ways they can seem more mature, attractive and have their lives more together than their shambolic single counterparts. Too many nights of looking stunning in your new outfit only to be admired by the cat as you’re let down yet again. In the unlikely event of being seen out anywhere by anyone he knows, you will be introduced as his niece/ cousin/ babysitter. If he has kids it’s highly unlikely he wants more, even though your imagination is working overtime dreaming of your own little family together. You can never just phone him when you’re having a bad day.

You find yourself going out less and less with friends, in case he can spare an hour to see you. Forget planning a nice romantic weekend away, there will always be some reason why it doesn’t happen. The awful cocktail of emotions when (not if) someone finds out about your affair – fear they’ll tell his wife, shame and, weirdly, some small relief.